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		<title>Comment on Introducing the 24 Character Strengths by Julia Barnard</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/introducing-the-24-character-strengths/#comment-4643</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia Barnard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 23:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Daniel. Glad to have been of help!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Daniel. Glad to have been of help!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Introducing the 24 Character Strengths by Daniel</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/introducing-the-24-character-strengths/#comment-4639</link>
		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 12:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being a writer looking for character strengths, I found this extremely helpful. Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being a writer looking for character strengths, I found this extremely helpful. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to increase your optimism by Chris Diamond</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/how-to-increase-your-optimism/#comment-4577</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Diamond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 09:34:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Julia, 

This is great. I find optimism to be one of the biggest driving forces to achieve something valuable out of life. There are so many ways to increase optimism, which is equivalent to higher productivity, but I&#039;d like to share the number one &quot;optimism killer.&quot; 

The Killer: Internal Dialogue

It&#039;s a little &quot;radio station&quot; inside our head that is telling us things, most of which negative. It&#039;s the source of our subconscious conditioning over the years. If we filter out the B.S. and all sorts of negative temptations out of our subconscious mind, we can really have our internal dialogue work for us. 

The source of all emotions, positive or negative, come as a result of the internal dialogue or the things we are telling ourselves. If you can handle that, it&#039;s half the battle!

Would you mind sharing some other effective ways to increase optimism? Let me know what you think:
http://www.doubletimetoday.com/motivation/how-optimism-plays-a-role-to-your-productivity/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Julia, </p>
<p>This is great. I find optimism to be one of the biggest driving forces to achieve something valuable out of life. There are so many ways to increase optimism, which is equivalent to higher productivity, but I&#8217;d like to share the number one &#8220;optimism killer.&#8221; </p>
<p>The Killer: Internal Dialogue</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a little &#8220;radio station&#8221; inside our head that is telling us things, most of which negative. It&#8217;s the source of our subconscious conditioning over the years. If we filter out the B.S. and all sorts of negative temptations out of our subconscious mind, we can really have our internal dialogue work for us. </p>
<p>The source of all emotions, positive or negative, come as a result of the internal dialogue or the things we are telling ourselves. If you can handle that, it&#8217;s half the battle!</p>
<p>Would you mind sharing some other effective ways to increase optimism? Let me know what you think:<br />
<a href="http://www.doubletimetoday.com/motivation/how-optimism-plays-a-role-to-your-productivity/" rel="nofollow">http://www.doubletimetoday.com/motivation/how-optimism-plays-a-role-to-your-productivity/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on 20 Anger Management Tips by Julia Barnard</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/20-anger-management-tips/#comment-4555</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia Barnard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 23:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Augustine. You may like to have a look at this page: http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&amp;np=291&amp;id=2229

Although it is aimed at teens I think it offers good practical advice.

I hope this helps. Julia

Hmmm.... for some reason the link appears to not be there but it is! Move your mouse over the blank space and you&#039;ll find it! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Augustine. You may like to have a look at this page: <a href="http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&#038;np=291&#038;id=2229" rel="nofollow">http://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=243&#038;np=291&#038;id=2229</a></p>
<p>Although it is aimed at teens I think it offers good practical advice.</p>
<p>I hope this helps. Julia</p>
<p>Hmmm&#8230;. for some reason the link appears to not be there but it is! Move your mouse over the blank space and you&#8217;ll find it!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 20 Anger Management Tips by Augustine</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/20-anger-management-tips/#comment-4467</link>
		<dc:creator>Augustine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 07:10:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the tips here are very helpful, but is there any other websites or books other than the one you specified above, that you would recomend??


cheers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the tips here are very helpful, but is there any other websites or books other than the one you specified above, that you would recomend??</p>
<p>cheers</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Character Strengths of Wisdom and Knowledge by Phil</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/the-character-strengths-of-wisdom-and-knowledge/#comment-4411</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 20:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate your professional teaching to be a happy person</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate your professional teaching to be a happy person</p>
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		<title>Comment on Anxiety disorders: generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder and phobias by Jai Waugh, Melbourne hypnotherapy</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/anxiety-disorders-generalised-anxiety-disorder-panic-disorder-post-traumatic-stress-disorder-obsessive-compulsive-disorder-and-phobias/#comment-4373</link>
		<dc:creator>Jai Waugh, Melbourne hypnotherapy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Dec 2011 10:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great overview on anxiety Julie.
I think it is important for those suffering any sort of anxiety to realize that you cannor have a feeling without first having a thought; it is your thought that drives the feeling.  What is anxiety afterall? In my Melbourne hypnotherapy practice I empower my clients with knowlege.  ANXIETY IS A FEAR OF THE FUTURE - WHICH HASN&#039;T HAPPENED.  But what they imagine is going to happen, that they DON&#039;T WANT TO HAPPEN, MAKES THEM FEEL ANXIOUS.  This is because the subconscious mind,  where the imagination resides, doesn&#039;t know the difference between what is real &amp; what is only imagined, so you have a whole body experience as if it were true.  Anyone who comes through my door suffering from anxiety, I bellieve, is suffering from a misused, misguided but gifted imagination, which is being used to their detriment.  But with some new habis to replace those bad ones (of thinking the worst is going to happen), people can overcome anxiety &amp; turn their life around.  simple....but not necessarily easy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great overview on anxiety Julie.<br />
I think it is important for those suffering any sort of anxiety to realize that you cannor have a feeling without first having a thought; it is your thought that drives the feeling.  What is anxiety afterall? In my Melbourne hypnotherapy practice I empower my clients with knowlege.  ANXIETY IS A FEAR OF THE FUTURE &#8211; WHICH HASN&#8217;T HAPPENED.  But what they imagine is going to happen, that they DON&#8217;T WANT TO HAPPEN, MAKES THEM FEEL ANXIOUS.  This is because the subconscious mind,  where the imagination resides, doesn&#8217;t know the difference between what is real &amp; what is only imagined, so you have a whole body experience as if it were true.  Anyone who comes through my door suffering from anxiety, I bellieve, is suffering from a misused, misguided but gifted imagination, which is being used to their detriment.  But with some new habis to replace those bad ones (of thinking the worst is going to happen), people can overcome anxiety &amp; turn their life around.  simple&#8230;.but not necessarily easy.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Introducing the 24 Character Strengths by 24 Ways to Let Your Authentic Self Shine @ Explore Whats Next</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/introducing-the-24-character-strengths/#comment-4057</link>
		<dc:creator>24 Ways to Let Your Authentic Self Shine @ Explore Whats Next</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 02:41:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] strengths are so that you can go there and use them! Mostly I like the rundown on all the traits as &#8220;Make the Change for Wellbeing and Happiness&#8221; writes them up. Now it&#8217;s time to go to bed to re-charge my [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] strengths are so that you can go there and use them! Mostly I like the rundown on all the traits as &#8220;Make the Change for Wellbeing and Happiness&#8221; writes them up. Now it&#8217;s time to go to bed to re-charge my [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Introducing the 24 Character Strengths by Can Character Be Taught?</title>
		<link>http://makethechange.com.au/introducing-the-24-character-strengths/#comment-3568</link>
		<dc:creator>Can Character Be Taught?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 04:01:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] believe character strengths lie at the heart of success in school, business, marriage and life. Take a deep dive into the 24 strengths, organized into 6 key virtues, and I think you&#8217;ll [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] believe character strengths lie at the heart of success in school, business, marriage and life. Take a deep dive into the 24 strengths, organized into 6 key virtues, and I think you&#8217;ll [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Character Strengths of Wisdom and Knowledge by Julia Barnard</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julia Barnard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 03:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Nigel. Your appreciation is appreciated :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Nigel. Your appreciation is appreciated <img src='http://makethechange.com.au/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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